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Here goes our opinion....
Early parenthood
Unwanted pregnancy
HIV/Aids
Prostitution
Abortion
Porn
ALL OF THESE HAVE ITS COMMON ROOT,
Premarital Sex
The sin behind all sins, a taboo and a mind-boggling issue. Premarital sex or fornication has long been a widespread issue among adults and teenagers. The urge to engage in sex before marriage has been the topic of argument between conservative/traditional people and the new age people who does not see this thing as wrong.
Most teenagers, especially the ones living in the United States, does not have an idea if this activity is right or wrong. In fact, one blogger is brave enough to post his insights on why he engages in premarital sex. Here are his reasons:
1.My friends are doing it
2.It would be cool
3.I would lose my partner
4.I don't want my friends/partner to think I could be gay.
5.What if I die tomorrow?
6.It’s seem so great in the movies
7.I feel bored
8.I feel lousy now perhaps I would feel better after sex.
9.I have the money and someone needs
10.Porn feels good, sex should feel better.
11.Someone hot and popular wants to do it with me!
12.I want to blog about it or talk about it
13.The magic of unknown.
14. I have done it in the past
15.Kissing, Oral Sex, etc are not the same as intercourse.
This type of activity is not limited to only one person; it is common among male teenagers. The mere fact that most people do not consider the emotional effects of pre-marital sex is definitely a grave threat to teenagers nowadays. Sex is an emotional experience and it affects our lives in ways we do not understand.
There is great difference between love and lust, and there are a lot of possible ways to prevent you from becoming a victim of this gravely sin.
11 comments:
haha.. no wonder why some girls thinks that guys only want to have sex and then dispose them..
if i really love someone.. i would think of the possible effect of this act to her. Love can be express in many different ways. Always think of "whats gonna happen next for both of you if ever the girl became pregnant?". . .
sex can be pleasurable and it can also lead you to hell...
Sex can be related as same as the story of the fruit on the tree of knowledge. In this story, the serpent, the most cunning creature God had created, offered Adam and Eve to eat the fruit for the will be like God. However, God made us from his image and therefore, his likeness. What I'm saying is that commiting a sin, offered by temptations, is an exchange of something we already have in exchange of everything including our spirit. The same goes in PMS. We engage in this similar sexual acts in order to please and satisfy ourselves although life can be more satisfying in different ways
i think curiousity is the main reason why young couples engage in premarital sex that is why they still do it inspite of the many risks it involves. no matter how pleasurable they claim it is, i still don't agree with the thought of doing it before marriage.
Fornication or engaging in sex itself before married is a very serious sin against the eyes of GOD. Nowadays a lot teenagers/adults get to engage in fornication. For some kissing and the like or the usual things that couples do is not that serious as a sin. They don't consider it as a sin. The Church is against fornication. Another is fornication itself could give you a lot of problems, for example pregnancy or early parenthood. It is good to have relationship with someone whom you really love. But it is not that right/good to engage yourself to sex itself. If you don't want to cause any trouble/problems to your life as well as to your parents better if you abstain from sex before married. Fornication itself is a wicked one. GOD sees it as a serious sin. Fornication itself is definitely a wrong one. Better to abstain from it before settled/married.
Well premarital sex is not good in the eyes of GOD. Sex is a gift from him and it can be done only by couple who is already married. But nowadays many teenagers are engaged with this kind of situation. Generation nowadays are quite different from before. Their social life are now changing, because of the bad influences they get from other people or from their peers. Some of them nowadays do not respect girls, they tend to score and not knowing the importance of virginity. If sex is done without love, it can cause a great pain inside, and also a wounded heart when the girl is just left behind. Remember if you really love the person, just wait for the right time to be married with him or her and by not engaging to premarital sex as early as of now. True love can wait. And it is not true that you can say you love the person after having PMS with him or her.
i think media plays a big role why fornication is nowadays a very common thing to do... don't you agree?
my stand?
i do not agree to sex before marriage.
why?
because it is wrong. no explanation can justify the rightness of this act. enough said.
i agree with kirk, media DOES play a vital role in PMS... and it still is. without proper guidance and explanation from both the parents and the media, people (most especially curious teenagers) become susceptible to the temptation of this sin. if people would understand this matter with more depth, the amount of people engaging in this act would lessen.
anyway, that's just my two cents about the issue.
What counts as sex?
It's an actual question that requires an actual answer. I'm sure most are familiar with how people classify these acts in terms of bases. If a person went to third base, does that mean that that person is no longer a virgin?
Sex itself is not a sin, even if we're taking on a religious stand point. The sin committed is the act of preventing the production of life when a person has sex, therefore the use of contraceptives is the sin committed.
But are we going to allow ourselves to be enslaved by religion? As I've stated earlier, sex is not a sin. So if a person does have sex is it wrong for them to use contraceptives when it prevents them from contracting diseases that could otherwise not be prevented?
There is no problem with stating your personal viewpoint on whether or not you think premarital sex is bad but at the same time this argument cannot simply be justified by a person's belief because belief is subjective.
Just because a couple has sex before marriage doesn't automatically mean that they don't love each other as much as the couple who waited til after marriage to have sex. The decision of when to have do it relates greatly to how a person was brought up.
Some people see marriage as a ritual that you have to go through before you have sex. But what if a person is not religious? Should that person still undergo the rites of marriage, just because? Does it make him/her a better person for getting that license before committing sex, or does that make him/her a bad person because he/she participated in something that he/she may not truly believe in?
Who's to say that having sex before marriage is wrong? If a person was brought up to believe that it's not a sin, is that person therefore not committing that sin since he/she does not know that it is wrong?
Most think that sex is a sin because it's purely pleasure. Yes it is about pleasure but at the same time it's also an expression of love. Think about it, you're willingly letting yourself be vulnerable to another person because there is enough love and trust within that relationship, or even just within that moment.
I don't know whether sex before marriage is good or bad. My whole point is that people have to be more open-minded about it. We can't blindly say that it's bad for the sake of saying that it's bad, and at the same time we can't blindly say that it's alright for the sake of saying that it's fine.
Most of the comments I've read are regarding this issue in terms of black and white. Need you be reminded that the world itself is not as simple as that? So why are we trying so hard to categorize when shades of gray exists?
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